Apologize to Brit.

If this is the wrong section, please do me a favor and move it. Thank you.

Last night, after our Zak run, we were talking about who looted the zak helmets, because 4 helmets dropped but only 2 ppl from the list could get them (Mike and Jerms), the other 2 helmets were supposed to be for Brit and Pau, but for some reason, someone looted first.

As this was the second time Brit lost her helmet, i was really pissed for what happened, but at the same time i was laughing (not because i was glad of what happened, but the funny situation of being robbed twice... I know many of you will get mad at me for this, but that was what i was thinking, sorry).

In some point i told Brit, that she was losing her helmets because she was "effing slow"... I know what i said and i'm not an hypocrite to deny i did said these words.

Well what i didn't thought was that these words really hurted her feelings, and if this was talked in guild chat i really didn't payed attention because after our run i went to another with some friends, not because i was ignoring you.

And i say that i didn't thought these words would hurt her, simply because i didn't mean it too sound like if i was yelling at her or something. Of course what is said is said and i can't delete my words.

All i can say is, PLEASE BRIT FORGIVE ME!!! IT WAS NEVER MY INTENTION TO HURT YOUR FEELINGS AND MAKE YOU SAD, PLEASE BELIEVE ME BECAUSE I'M TELLING THE TRUTH AND NOTHING BUT THE TRUTH.

Also i'd like to have you back in Aeons, this was completely my fault and if someone should be gone, that would be me. No one else did anything for you to leave them, so please don't

I really hope you read this some day, i will be waiting for a reply (good or bad i will understand you)

I have nothing else to say...

~Tomy~

First off, I just want to let you know it's NOT completely your fault that I left. I was bothered by your comment, but I was more hurt that no one bothered to say anything to you about the comment or me to try and comfort me. I have a bad history of friends stabbing me in the back/abandoning me/lying to me/what not, so I guess part of that came into play. I really consider some of the members good friends, and so I just felt a little betrayed I guess? I just saw people around me in the map, people talking in the guild, yet no one said anything. People managed to yell at Chris about telling me to watch my language, but yet no one was willing to say anything? Dave made a joke on who would win, Tom or me, yet no one really said anything. I was just very confused and hurt 'cause I suck. -_-

I guess the initial comment bothered me so much, because I kind of felt like I was being insulted/called out. I have barely talked to you Tom, so I felt like it was a shot at me, especially since Pauline didn't get her helm yet there was no comment towards her. Plus, the first time my helm was looted I didn't even know I was supposed to get one since I was 12th on the list that run, so I didn't understand why I would be the only one that's slow. :/

I've never really been one to admit this to people, but I don't exactly have the highest of self-esteem and self-image. I like to use this game to get away, have some fun, and take a short break from my life. Unfortunately, my emotions don't check themselves at the door. -_- I = suckage.

Ugh. Why do I have to cry every time I read or reply to one of these things?! Haha. :/

I forgive you Tom. If I was closer to you, I probably would have jokingly shot back at you followed by a "j.k." 'cause I'm known to do that. It's something the few rl friends I have like to do. Eh heh.

I just want to reiterate that it is not completely your fault that I left Aeons, so please don't think that. Right now, I'm actually uncomfortable to even play Nova. It's...weird. I'm weird. Bleh.

All I can say is I knew that I was screwed when I was number 13 on the expedition squad list. J.K.

-Brittany-

P.S. Sorry for my "TL;DR" post.

Eh, about the joke....I saw that Tom was joking, and I assumed that you thought the same...I didn't mean to offend anyone...>.>...so yeah, sorry about that. =/

I thought the "Tom vs Britt" comment was a little funny, but unfortunately I was too upset about no one coming to my aid/comforting me to say anything/have it cheer me up. ><

It may be a game Brit, but it involves REAL PEOPLE, therefore... REAL EMOTIONS.

That's why i totally understand that all your fears are somehow playing in the game too. This doesn't happens only to you, it happens to almost everyone here. We all have our sad moments in the game.

Maybe no one said anything to me or you because of the spam there was inside and outside the altar, i was getting chat invites, whispers, buddy chat and guild chat all at the same time, and i'm sure more than one member was going through the same, or else they would have said something to me (i'm sure Pau, Kat and Marie would have).

Anyways, i broke our own guild rules, and not only that, by doing it i hurted the feelings of a very loyal member and friend of the Aeons family.

It's because of that, that from now on i can't stay in Aeons, rules apply for everyone and believe me, if it were someone else who told Brit that, i'd vote for that person to be expelled right away.

I have great faith in you guys and i know you will do great in future runs =)

Also if you ever need help with anything don't hesitate to ask me, i will be there to help you as much as i can.

Brit i have nothing to say but THANK YOU for forgiving me, but the fact that my immature comment make you quit guild and lose interest in your hard trained mage doesn't make it easier. I really feel like crap right now, and i wanna beat myself...

I guess we will be seeing around guys =)

Come visit me sometime at Newties =P

~Tomy~








P.S.: Brit... i also cry...

NUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU......................both of you guys left

I'm so sorry Britt! I could hardly keep up with the guild chat last night to be honest! There was so much commotion and spam! Unfortunately, things were said that were not intended and feelings got hurt. We can't turn back time but we can all move forward from this. I certainly would be there to aid you in anything. Everyone knows that I'm quick to blast anyone that offends anybody in guild. I just really didn't see what was going on last night. I do apologize!

Both of you are a big part of this guild. I do hope that BOTH OF YOU would reconsider your decisions.

Brit, I understand how you feel too!

Please keep this in mind when you think over what happened that night.

At the end of the Zrun it was very chaotic, especially when everyone realized that 2 helms were missing, and once again you were robbed of one. Everyone was chatting so much trying to determine what happened and other guildies were also talking in guild chat trying to find out how the run went, that it was hard to keep up with what everyone was saying. I didnt even see what Tom wrote until I saw what you wrote later and realized you were upset. I asked Rob if he knew what was going on and since MS booted him, he didnt know either. I had to scroll back up to find what Tom even said. I am not a JR, so I am sure that the JRs were getting even more chat than I was (All, guild, buddy, whispers) and just didnt see what was happening until it was too late (Jeff was on your char).

@ Tom, I have yet to understand the humor you saw in her situation (and I can usually find humor in most anything). I think what made it not come across as humor was the 'effing' part. I think considering her circumstance and being disappointed again, that totally took any humor out of it.

I hope you guys come back home to Aeons soon, it wont be the same with out you! :smiley9:

yeah why do i always get yelled at for saying that when im not being serious o.o

Brit :Smiley4: :D I PMed you and told you what I think and felt about things....>.>


@ Tom and Brit:Smiley4: :Smiley4: ....Come back to your Home9the Aeons)! We are at a lost without you both!:Smiley4: :Smiley4:


Rob

BRITTTTTTTT!!!!! Your Lukless is welcome to the guild! YOU CAN JOIN NOW MISSY!

Well then...what am I doing here?! Haha. ;)

Actually, I should wait to get on to see if Nova needs to do some stalking. ;D

I think I can join you with the stalking...though i think Tomy enjoys being stalk by girls...>.>

I am so glad that you've decided to rejoin our big Aeons family Britt~!

Though I might have to promote the JRs. first...@_@

Meh...so many things happened recently have kept me awake at night...and I totally forgot about the promotion part...

You guys have fun stalking that Tomy...goodness...wouldn't he be overjoyed...>.>

(I am so happy now that I think I need another cup of Starbucks...and more HUGz.)

I think we might have a problem then Marie. How is our stalking going to make him come back if he LIKES it? Haha!

Pauline, I know I totally forgot about the JR loss. Oops. It's no big rush, because the guild's safety comes first.

I recently haven't been getting much sleep either because of numerous things, so I feel your pain. I hope everything turns out okay, no matter what it is. :)

I like Starbucks, but I don't like coffee so I get all the boring stuff like the strawberry creme thing and chai tea frappachinos! I need to learn to tolerate coffee 'cause I am tired of always feeling sleepy. ><

W00t Brit! glad you're back.
Now go get Tomy~

Well, things are looking up. It's too bad your feeling were hurt, but I'm very happy you were able to put it behind you. Even though I don't know you terribly well, your leaving would have effected the guild and hurt many within it.

If you need some help or advice on where to train, I'd be willing to offer you my assistance and time. Relax, you have a home here.

I don't have the attention span to read all that....>.<

Loveable Kaze wrote:

I don't have the attention span to read all that....>.<

Dav you Have an attention span ?? HeHe


@ Brit~ ~~~~<3 thanks for coming back and staying :D Little Sis is home!!!:Wink:


@ Tom~ ~~~~ Big Bro you need to come Home :smiley21:



@ Rose, Pauline, Marie, Brit, Kat, Anna, Dav, Jeff, Tom, Dan, Mike(Cris and Fox), Matt (Dunny)......:Smiley4: *Big Bear HUGZ*:Smiley4:




PS...also to the once I might have Missed! *Hugz* :Smiey2:

Okay, me and Mike can work together to seduce Tom then spam him with guild invites. We ARE two beautiful girls, after all. ;]

Stalking, seducing, and spamming...how can he NOT accept!

Malaag wrote:

Okay, me and Mike can work together to seduce Tom then spam him with guild invites. We ARE two beautiful girls, after all. ;]

>_>

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